Did Rebekah's family ask Rebekah before agreeing to let her go with Abraham's servant?
Yes. Rebekah's family said they would call the damsel and inquire at her mouth, and she had to make the final decision herself. The servant did all he could to woo and win her, but the choice was hers before she departed with him.
Les teaches that after the feasting and getting acquainted in the house of Rebekah and her family, it boiled down to her making the choice. The family said, “We will call the damsel, and inquire at her mouth” (verse 57). Even though the servant did all that he could to woo and win this beautiful girl, yet she had to make the final decision, as picked up in verse 58. So yes, they asked Rebekah before agreeing to let her go.
Genesis 24:57
And they said, We will call the damsel, and enquire at her mouth.