Are there exceptions to Paul's teaching about sex in marriage?
Yes, but only by mutual consent: a couple may abstain from the marriage relationship for a limited time, provided they come together again so Satan does not tempt either partner through incontinency. Paul notes emotional stress or physical impairment may enter in, yet the normal rule still applies.
Les teaches that Paul's instruction is not to defraud or pressure a spouse for something of your own volition. The exception is by consent: if both partners agree to refrain from the marriage relationship for a time, that is permissible, but it must not be extended. Les emphasizes they must come together again so Satan does not tempt them because of incontinency. Even though emotional stress or physical impairment can enter in, under normal circumstances the rule stands. The sex drive is powerful, and God put it there for a purpose, but it is not to be abused. Paul speaks this by permission, not commandment, and acknowledges each person has his proper gift from God.
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
More Questions
Does Paul's teaching on marital abstinence account for emotional stress or physical impairment?
Paul's instruction about abstaining from marital relations assumes normal conditions, though emotional stress and physical impairment can enter in.
Can a married couple agree to abstain from sex for a period of time?
A couple may abstain from the marriage relationship only by mutual consent, and if it is consented to for a time, that is all well and good.
How long can a married couple abstain from sex for a spiritual purpose?
Paul says that if the two partners consent to abstain from the marriage relationship for a time it is all well and good, but they must not do it for long — they are to come together again.
How long should a married couple abstain from sex?
If a couple consents to abstain from marital relations for a time, it is acceptable, but they should not do it for long; they should come together again.