What does the marriage relationship in Ephesians 5 illustrate about our relationship with Christ?
The marriage relationship in Ephesians 5 illustrates the spiritual union between Christ and the Church. As husband and wife are joined, believers are united with Christ; Christ is the head of the Church, and He died and suffered for its members, just as a husband should be ready to die for his wife.
Les explains that Ephesians 5 uses the marriage relationship as an analogy for the believer’s spiritual relationship with Christ. Just as a husband and wife are united, the moment we become a child of God we are literally unioned with Christ. Christ is the head of the Church, and to become head of the Body He had to die and suffer for us; the resurrection overcame that death. In the same way, a husband should be ready to die for his wife if necessary.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.